I write what moves me.
Adventures, identity, wealth & living – from the inside of a life that refused to be one thing. by8lives is where I put all of it.

Somewhere between the mountains and the open road.
I’ve lived between structure and chaos, discipline and intuition, the mountains, the oceans, and the open road. Parts of my life were highly structured, shaped by discipline, performance, and pushing myself further than I thought I could. Other parts were the opposite — environments where everything depended on people, on communication, on learning to navigate uncertainty without clear answers. I’m used to moving between structure and intuition. Between control and adapting. Between knowing exactly what to do — and having to figure things out as I went.
I believe in the ability to read the room and make decisions before anyone else does. I believe in building a life that actually fits — across all the versions of yourself that are real, not just the ones that are convenient. I believe in not choosing between softness and strategy, because the most fully lived lives are built by those who refused to flatten themselves into just one.
I write about feminine identity, outdoor adventures, movement and wilderness, and what happens to you when you spend enough time outside. I write about traveling and living abroad, and the honest mess of figuring it out in motion. There’s beauty in changing direction and shape — in rewriting, retelling, reshaping your story. In living all your lives at once, without losing your ground, your edge, your ambition, or your standards.
be the blueprint and the glitch, the structure and the disruption.